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This story is not rainbows and cotton candy. This is my experience and mine alone. If someone had asked me about sfx after Jack was born I might have said that it would never occur again in my lifetime.
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Wives wants real sex Spencer I mean the blood, the stitches, the gore!! The thought of something going in my vagina seemed just as traumatizing as the experience of a baby coming out. Not to mention the lack of desire. He wanted nothing for me but to be comfortable, healed Find Maitland happy. I took a mirror and angled it down Wives wants real sex Spencer my vagina.
That was certainly never usable again. I had an episiotomy. I could see stitches. It looked like there were several incisions I later learned there were not, it was just such a huge mess that it seemed like someone had taken a hacksaw to it. It was covered in blood. No matter how much I sprayed that damn peri bottle at it.
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I did not suffer from Postpartum Depression, but I had some Wives wants real sex Spencer moments. Yes, you heard me. So that completely took away the perk Wives wants real sex Spencer not getting my period for 9 months.
I went in after 6 weeks to get my pap smear. When I iWves I was terrified I am making an enormous understatement. I thought about this for weeks beforehand. She was going to have to use the speculum.
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Due to the continued bleeding she had to reschedule. I was relieved in the moment, but the anxiety just continued to build when I left.
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One evening I was cruising around a mommy group that I had joined. Someone brought up the topic of sex. My friend casually stated something about having sex.
My mouth fell open and my stomach turned upside down. She has had sex since giving birth? I asked her if I understood her correctly.
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I was literally stunned for like a whole week. Could not stop thinking about it. My husband and I had open conversations about this. I expressed my fears. He said he understood.
I am sure after a few months passed he was wondering when I would start to move to a new phase in mommyhood. As with any long-term relationship sex had been a topic of discussion before.
We had gone through rough patches and smooth patches and back to rough patches. He always wanted to have sex. Sometimes I would go long periods of time not wanting to.
This always made him feel rejected and undesirable. We worked through it because we love each other. I Wives wants real sex Spencer had an answer as to why I would go so long not wanting Wives wants real sex Spencer have sex. Another layer of complication was that it took some time to change our thinking about sex. We had sex for fun for 10 years.
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You mean I am supposed to be excited about the fact that you are going to put your penis into the slaughtered mess that was now my Sexin new yourk Yeah, sounds like a ball of fun. I returned to the doctor for the ever dreaded pap smear. Wives wants real sex Spencer was totally painless. I told her I was afraid to have aants after birth. I understood what she meant and the painless pelvic exam decreased my anxiety.
However, we still had to deal with the logistics of it. Even if I could muster up some desire when would this happen? Where would this happen? My skin was healed, but there was still so much going on down there. It felt like there was extra skin.
I felt like my vagina was wide open. Like if I put in a tampon it would fall right back out. Would I ever be the same again?
We finally made it happen one night on the couch co-sleepers do it in the… whatever room is free! It was painless and that is all I remember. That is all I was concerned about.
Even 14 months postpartum I still have little desire to have sex, but we have been actively trying Wives wants real sex Spencer conceive since about 6 months postpartum so it happens on a regular basis. I am a Mama with her eye on the prize so I suck it up and make it happen.
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For now the purpose of sex remains as a means to procreate and not just for the fun of it. My vagina seems to be back to normal, mostly. That gaping hole feeling is gone.
I suppose the muscles strengthened back up. I have my agenda permanently out on the table to mark the days of my cycle.
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I started my period about 7 months postpartum Wies by 10 months it was regular. We plan our sex according to the calendar. Please send me your baby vibes so we can do all this over again.
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