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You're basically inviting another person to hold court for an audience. For some people, there's no greater compliment. Recognition is related to interest, but it adds a component of reaction.
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This one is like the last suggestion, squared. We all wonder what other people think of us.
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Give this a shot, and you'll very quickly come up with your own go-to phrases. In fact, why not let us know some of your go-to favorites in the comments below?